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Notes on Being a Man – Part II: Why the Gurus Get the Facts Right but the Cure Wrong
Notes on Being a Man — Part II: Why the Gurus Get the Facts Right but the Cure Wrong Every modern masculinity guru begins the same way: by telling the truth about what’s happening to men, and the author of Notes on Being a Man is no exception. He names the crisis clearly; the isolation,…
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You Weren’t Laid Off — You Were Abandoned by the System
You Weren’t Laid Off — You Were Abandoned by the System In the past twelve months alone, more than 1.2 million American workers were cut from corporate payrolls. Tech giants—Amazon, Google, Meta, Tesla—collectively erased over 250,000 jobs. Retail chains shuttered over 3,000 locations. UPS cut 12,000 employees. Entertainment, finance, logistics, manufacturing; no sector was spared.…
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THE BLUR IS THE INVITATION
THE BLUR IS THE INVITATION A Reflection for the Men Who Still Believe They Have Time Life does not announce its passing with trumpets or thunder. It slips by quietly, like the streak of headlights on a rainy street; fast, indifferent, gone before you can remember the color. One morning you find yourself staring out…
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Why Self-Help Fails Men
Why Self-Help Fails Men The self-help industry tells men they can rebuild their lives one podcast at a time, one routine at a time, one affirmation at a time. But after decades of hustle, optimization, and endless advice, men are not healed—they are hollowed out. They’ve been told that success is measured in data points,…
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“Notes on Being a Man” — and Why It Misses the Target
Men are listening again.Scott Galloway’s Notes on Being a Man has swept through podcasts and late-night shows, hailed as the modern manual for masculinity. It’s a confessional; half memoir, half therapy; where a successful man stares into the mirror and asks what went wrong. He speaks of depression, fatherhood, and the loneliness that stalks the…
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MEN WITHOUT FRIENDSHIPS — Part 3 of 3
MEN WITHOUT FRIENDSHIPS — Part 3 of 3 There comes a moment when we realize that waiting for friendship to return on its own is another form of surrender. We can keep mourning what was lost; the lodges, the teams, the neighborhoods; or we can do what the absurd man always does: act without promise…
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MEN WITHOUT FRIENDSHIPS — Part 2 of 3
MEN WITHOUT FRIENDSHIPS — Part 2 of 3 We like to believe loneliness is an accident, a by-product of progress, a small price for the comfort and convenience of modern life. But it is not an accident; it is the architecture of our age. The machines that promised connection have built invisible walls around us.…
